
Engagement ring: what budget?
Buying a ring as a gift is already an emotional act, but when it comes to an engagement ring, the burden is even greater. It is a symbol of love and affection, a testament to one's commitment to a relationship. How can you reflect all this in the budget allocated to the engagement ring ?
We now have some answers, thanks to a study by Morning Consult. In the United States, Americans planning to get married allocate an average budget of two weeks' salary to purchasing an engagement ring, or 4% of their annual pre-tax salary , according to an online survey of 1,640 respondents.

How much for an engagement ring?
Morning Consult asked a national sample when they got engaged, how much they were earning at the time, and how much they paid for the ring they gave their bride. Prices were adjusted for inflation based on the dates provided, while any bundled purchase with the wedding band was deducted.
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The budget allocated to the engagement ring obviously depends on the suitor's income , but it is remarkably stable in terms of its percentage. There is, however, an exception to this trend for the lowest incomes (less than $23,000 per year), who spent an average of 2.2 months of salary on the engagement ring, or 16.7% of their annual income. For the rest, the allocated budget is between 3 and 4% .
Very different budgets for such a ring
However, the budget allocated for an engagement ring can vary greatly depending on the individual. Seven respondents reported paying more than $10,000 (and among celebrities, it's not uncommon for the bill to reach several hundred thousand dollars). The average, however, was $1,900 , with most engagement rings falling in the $500 to $3,000 price range. Generational factors did not cause any differences.
Other surveys have revealed higher figures. According to the Newlywed survey, the average price of an engagement ring is $5,000. In a 2017 survey , The Knot cited an average price of $6,351. And in a study by an independent wedding company, the median cost was $1,830 in 2018.
Despite these disparities, there is one lesson to be learned from this study: the rule of three months' salary for an engagement ring budget (which originated in cleverly orchestrated marketing campaigns) is an illusion.

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However, according to Amanda Gizzi, a spokeswoman for the United States Jewelers Association, no one in the jewelry industry is talking about this rule anymore. However, she has noticed a change in behavior when it comes to buying an engagement ring . Today, couples are communicating more about it. They don't hesitate to visit jewelry stores together, discuss the choice of ring and the budget .
Cheaper rings aren't necessarily a bad thing for jewelry stores. Even major brands offer inexpensive rings to attract new customers who can then move on to more expensive luxury jewelry as their purchasing power increases.
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And finally, it's not the price of the ring that matters, but the feelings that go with it. As Ms. Gizzi notes, it's a very personal gift. " Your budget is your budget, you don't have to feel bad if your engagement ring didn't cost a fortune. "
A luxury engagement ring at a low price? Why not a high-quality pre-owned ring?
Miller jewelry in Paris specializes in second-hand and antique jewelry. We have engagement rings from the biggest brands, in perfect condition and at very attractive prices. Choosing second-hand for an engagement ring means being able to offer a superior quality product for the same budget. Our rings are certified and refurbished. Cartier, second-hand Hermès ring , Dinh Van, Dior, Boucheron, Pomellato… We always have in stock second-hand rings from the most famous brands and more confidential houses, at all prices (especially under €1000) to help you find the perfect engagement ring while respecting your budget .